事業與愛情我都要，布蕾克萊芙莉給女人的２０句忠告

從《牛仔褲的夏天》裡青澀的小女孩，到《花邊教主》中性感又狂野的女人，布蕾克萊芙莉高挑身材和迷人的魅力，總是能抓住觀眾的目光。

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但在別人眼中天之嬌女的布蕾克萊芙莉也曾有過一段黑暗的日子，唯美的金色捲髮，以及陽光般的笑容，正是布蕾克萊芙莉的招牌形象。

可惜她的美麗使觀眾無法關注在她的演技，在１５年的努力之下，《時空永恆的愛戀》、《絕鯊島》、《失蹤網紅》展現了他純熟的演技，不是他人眼中的那個花瓶。

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和丈夫萊恩雷諾斯的相遇，讓布蕾克萊芙莉也在婚後升格為3個女兒的媽，愛情與事業兩得意，到底她是如何做到的呢？

布蕾克萊芙莉給了女人１０句忠告，鼓勵女人應該要做自己，不要害怕不完美的自己，也要相信愛情與事業從來不用二選一。

「我從來不去思考，別人會怎麼評論我穿什麼。」

"I never think about how other people will respond to the way I dress."

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「我無法看著某人然後說：『我就是想要她那種人生。』因為我想創造屬於我自己的故事。」

"I can't look at one person's life and say, 'I want that life.' I want to make my own history."

「不會有人比自己更努力地為你奮鬥。」

"Nobody's going to fight for you as much as you fight for yourself."

「如果身旁的他不是能夠啟發我的人，那我寧願獨處。」

"If I'm not with somebody who really excites or inspires me, then I'd rather be by myself."

「沒有人能限制你。沒有人能告訴你，應該做什麼、不應該做什麼。」

"No one can limit you. No one can tell you what to do or what not to do."

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「自信，會是你最美的外衣。」

"The most beautiful thing you can wear is confidence."

「我們自出生就認定自己是完美的，除非有人告訴我們不完美。所以我沒有什麼能教給女兒，她已經擁有了一切。我唯一能做的就是守護她現在的感受。」

"We're all born feeling perfect until somebody tells us we're not. So there's nothing I can teach my daughter. She already has all of it. The only thing I can do is protect what she already feels."

「人們愛八卦，是因為他們缺乏安全感，所以他們去議論別人以防別人批評自己。他們指出別人的缺陷，只為了讓自我感覺良好。」

People gossip. People are insecure, so they talk about other people so that they won't be talked about. They point out flaws in other people to make them feel good about themselves.

「你絕不會出錯，只要忠於自我。」

"You can't really go wrong, as long as you're true to yourself."

「你可以從批評中學到很多，只要你能從中汲取到有建設性的部分。」

"You can learn a lot from criticism if you can take what's constructive out of it. If you read a review that starts with, 'This person is an idiot; who do they think they are?', you're not going to learn anything from that."

消息來源：什麼樣的女人最好命？布蕾克萊芙莉的20句語錄，教會我們「自信」面對愛情與事業